Making Room: Creating Space for People to Belong

By Jeremy DeGroot

When you think of a “host,” you might picture someone wearing a name tag, standing at the door with a smile and a handshake. While that role matters, biblical hospitality goes much deeper than assigned positions or welcome teams; it’s a calling for every believer. 

Hospitality is not just about greeting someone at the door; it’s about making room in our hearts, lives, and church for others to belong. True hospitality isn’t limited to a ministry; it’s a mindset that mirrors the heart of Jesus. In fact, Romans 15:7 says, “Wherefore receive ye one another, as Christ also received us to the glory of God.” That’s the model. Christ didn’t just greet us—He made room for us in His family. 

So how do we live that out practically? Here are five ways every one of us can be a host, whether or not we’re part of a host ministry: 

Acknowledge People Intentionally 

People often go through life feeling unseen, whether at work, on a school campus, or even in church. A kind word or warm smile can break down walls. Don’t underestimate the power of simply noticing someone, especially someone who seems alone. 

Be Present, Not Just Polite 

True hospitality goes beyond a quick “Hi, how are you?” It means slowing down, listening, and caring. Jesus was frequently interrupted, yet He was never too busy to notice the one in front of Him, like Bartimaeus, the blind man others tried to silence, but whom Jesus called to Himself (Mark 10:49). We make room by making time. 

Widen the Circle 

It’s easy to gravitate toward our comfort zones with our friends or familiar routines. But Gospel-centered hospitality widens the circle. We don’t create belonging just for community’s sake, but to reflect Christ’s love and lead others to Him. A question you might ask yourself is, “Am I helping create a space where people feel welcome enough to see Jesus clearly?” 

Demonstrate Christ Through Kindness 

Kindness isn’t just good manners; it’s fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22). Every moment of hospitality is a living testimony of the Gospel’s grace and invitation. 

Extend the Invitation Beyond the Building 

Being a host doesn’t end after the service. Who could you invite to lunch, to your Adult Bible Class, or into your life? Real belonging often begins outside the church walls. 

“Imagine a church where everyone lives this way, where hospitality is more than a handshake and a smile; it’s a spiritual habit, a reflection of Jesus Himself.”

Imagine a church where everyone lives this way, where hospitality is more than a handshake and a smile; it’s a spiritual habit, a reflection of Jesus Himself. At its core, hosting is about making room for interruptions, for people, and for the work God wants to do through us.

So whether you wear a badge or not, you are a host. And through you, someone might find their place, not just in a pew, but in the family of God.